Trying to get kinky

My partner is pretty reserved when it comes to talking openly about sex. Usually he will only get kinky with me when he's really drunk, and while drunk sex can be fun, let's be honest its sloppy af.

I've recently made two attempts to try speaking openly about what our kinks are and spicing things up in the bedroom, but each time he just gets awkward or changes the subject.

Love him a crazy amount and we've spent the last 8 years together, but I'm a really sexual person and although I've accepted his libido is lower than mine, a girl still needs to get hers!

Anyone have a similar experience or any advice? 😊🍆