Rumors of boyfriend raping someone when in reality I was statutory raped by the guy spreading rumors.
This is such a messy story. When I was 15 i slept with a 19 year old a few times. Nothing romantic just hook ups. He was pretty creepy about it "delete these messages or I'll go to jail" type of creepy. We'll call him Rob. Rob and my current boyfriend (we'll call him Jax) had a mutual friend. Rob got into a relationship and we stopped talking. They broke up about 3 years later and me and rob hooked up again. Shortly after, I met Jax through the mutual friend and two years later we're happy and have a child. Rob got back together and married his gf and had a family and they seemed happy.
Well when we first met, Jax told me that him and Rob got into it and dont talk anymore but wouldnt really tell me why just saying he's spreading lies (he knew about me and rob and didnt care) so the rumor is that 2 years ago when rob's ex gf broke up with him and I was hooking up with rob, she got really drunk and my bf took advantage of her. He claims they didnt sleep together and I believe him becuase it feels like he'd tell me if they did.
Jax is still bestfriends with the mutual friend and the mutual friend was bestfriends with rob but after all the drama the mutual friend didnt speak to rob anymore but now 2 years later rob wants to be friends but is still currently spreading the rumors that my bf raped his gf when in reality he statutory raped me. I'm not going to entertain them but the mutual friend wants my bf, rob and his gf to have a talk and I want to be there so I can tell rob that he has no right to say these things. Thoughts? Opinions? Stay out of it?
*I wont be commenting but I can edit if you guys need more details or have questions*
Trust me I want to move on more than anyone but the mutual friend wants everyone to be buddy buddy again and my boyfriend wants to clear his name.
EDIT: Morgan I get where you're coming from but in the eyes of the state that I live in sleeping with a minor even if it is consensual is called statutory rape. I dont think sleeping with children when you're 18+ is ever okay and I wish I had waited until it was legal becuase at the time the whole sneaking around, the deleting text, my family threatening to call the police. It was a lot of drama for some D lol
Edit.. again for Morgan: I didnt really read all of it just grazed but 17 and 18 is a big difference between 15 and 19.. in some states 17 is legal so I'm sure your dad wouldnt go to jail for messing with someone a year younger, heck they could've been in the same grade so yeah their maturity level could've been the same but Morgan I don't care what your maturity level is dont mess with minors, especially at age 25. You dont know my story at all so I'm not going to argue about the definition of statutory rape. You spitting some R.Kelly logic right now 😂
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