Annoying. What about you?

I’m not new to parenting. I have a 8 year old and 2 year old. We went to my sister in laws for Mother’s Day and EVERY SINGLE TIME I got my son settled and boob feed she would go and be in his face, pick him up, wake him up and he would cry....I keep telling people if you keep him awake all day he is going to be overstimulated and not sleep for me tonight...they say “oh no, he will be ok.” Noooo people. I know my son even though he’s a newborn. What annoys you now that you are a parent?