Help Me Please

So I am currently sexually active with only one person, and I’ve been with this person for almost 10 months. Two weeks ago, he had a new technique for eating me out that made me orgasm every time and he used this technique anytime we did anything (about 6-9 times by now). After the last time, about last Friday, I noticed that my labia minora (my inner lips), have become more inflamed and are starting to protrude out of my labia majora (my outer lips). This is starting to become an issue, as it does feel very uncomfortable since I am going through laser treatment to eliminate my hair, so it is poking and itching constantly. Does anyone have any ideas that could help make it less inflamed? I already put a cold compress there once a day every few minutes.