Christian ladies looking for moral advice

I'm turning 30 and wanted to have a fun drunk birthday. I wanted to go to lingerie store with hubby. Now here is where I need moral compass... I wanted to go to a strip club. (It would be once not making dates out of it, and he would be with me.) I thought it would fun sexy and daring. But we are a Christian family and want to honor God in our marriage. (I will admit we watch porn together on Avery rare occasion)