Is She Mentally ill?!!!

Hey everyone. I’m making this post because I’m interested in finding out what’s going on however I’m not sure or what to ask or search on google so I figured I would come on here and ask. This is gonna be long so please stick with me!

To kind of preface this, my boyfriend is 22 and has five sisters. He has four older sisters and a younger sister.

When I say older, I mean only by a couple of years. The oldest is 27 I believe and the youngest is 20.

Back in June/July, my boyfriend moved in with one of his older sisters who lives about 45 min from me. We would switch weekends where I would go there and stay the weekend with him and his sister and the next weekend he would come to my house and stay the weekend with me.

A couple of months after he moved in, his sister (we’ll call her Allison) moved her new boyfriend in. She’s about 25 and hasn’t had a real actual boyfriend since high school so she really liked this guy.

This guy and her are pot heads. They smoke weed all the time and I’m pretty sure they do other things as well (drugs) but I can’t be for sure.

The guy she’s with is what I would consider to be a bum. He doesn’t want to work, he’s comfortable doing what he’s doing. He works nights for right now part time being a cook and lives with Allison.

Fast forward to about January, my boyfriend and I were talking about opening up our own savings together and eventually moving out. We’re not thinking about moving until August 2019, which has always been our plan, we just wanted to start saving for it early.

My boyfriend mentioned to Allison that we were gonna start saving together for an apartment. She was very happy for us and told us she was excited. A couple of days later, she told me that her and her boyfriend had gotten into an argument over money and that they went to bed mad at one another because they had been fighting about it. Her story being that he doesn’t want to step up and be a man and take care of her.

Around mid January, my boyfriend and I started having issues due to the fact that his sister up’d his rent to $600 and told him he wouldn’t be able to find anywhere cheaper. She admitted to the fact that she didn’t want to be lonely and that the money could really help with the bills and mortgage so he agreed to pay it for the time being but my boyfriend and I weren’t able to open up a savings anymore because he had money going towards his bills and now hers so he was living paycheck to paycheck.

Long story short, he ended up moving in with me and my parents so we could save money. When he told her he was moving out, you could tell she was upset but was trying to hide it.

Flash forward to a week ago, she walked out of her job. She’s a school teacher and wasn’t happy doing her job and had been talking about quitting. She had put in her two weeks and was supposed to finish out the school year but ended up walking out last week and not telling anyone. Her other sisters were concerned because the school was calling her emergency contacts to see what was wrong.

A couple of days ago, she called my boyfriend while we were on our way home (keep in mind, my bf has been living with me for a couple of months now) and she was talking weird, saying she missed him and asking him about the internet, which was turned off a week ago and he had texted her about it. She was asking him for the password and stuff and then said “oh you sent it to me, never mind” and hung up but she was kind of all over the place with the conversation.

I ended up texting her and asking if she was okay. She read it and didn’t respond until 2 hours later that she was good.

I found out yesterday afternoon from one of his other sisters that she had called their dad a couple of days ago and told him she was lost and didn’t know how to get home. She stated “dad, I’m lost, can you come get me?”

But she was on her street a couple of houses down. When he informed her he couldn’t and that he’s in a different state because he’s a truck driver, she was confused and said “a truck driver?” And then she said “dad I’m lost, I don’t know how to get home.”

Now the final part. I got a call at 1:30 AM this morning from my boyfriends oldest sister and she was asking my boyfriend when Allison’s boyfriend moved in with her because the hospital was questioning it.

We found out that their dad had called the police and had them do a wellness check on her and when they arrived, the police said she didn’t sound right and said she sounded like she was on drugs so they called an ambulance and took her to the hospital. They would have taken her to the mental hospital but there is no longer one in her area apparently.

The hospital wants to keep her for at least 72 hours. My boyfriend left around 1:40 to drive all the way to the hospital to see her and to check on her house. The hospital was only allowing next of ken so they won’t allow anyone who isn’t family so her boyfriend hasn’t been able to see her which I view as a good thing, especially since they’re questioning him.

When my boyfriend got home, he told

me “Allison sounds out of her mind, she’s not the same person I grew up with”.

And he was saying she basically looked and sounded like an insane person. He stated she kept saying she hasn’t slept in 5 days because she’s afraid someone is trying to kill her in her sleep. He also stated that she looks a lot skinnier like she’s lost a lot of weight. He said she hasn’t eaten the food the hospital has provided for her and the nurse informed him that they don’t think it’s drug related because her screening came back clear.

He also stated that she said “I feel stuck and I’ve felt stuck for a long time” and then she kept asking him if he was stuck at the hospital too. He said “no I’m not, I can leave her whenever I want, but you are” and he said from there she kept getting confused on who was stuck and who wasn’t.

The psych showed up right when my boyfriend was about to leave so I haven’t heard anything else.

My boyfriend also asked her if she had fed her dogs at the house and if they were okay and she said “dogs..?”

And he said “yeah, you have three dogs.” To which she proceeded to name all three of them and then said she didn’t have any dogs.

I’m wondering if this could be a severe case of a nervous/mental break down?? She also stated she’s lonely and she’s been calling my boyfriend a lot. Could this have anything to do with him moving out a couple of months ago? I know her and her boyfriend have argued over money and now that he’s being questioned, I’m curious as to what the radical shift was to have her react in such a drastic way.

I’ve never heard or seen her act this way. I’ve seen her drunk and high but never this out of it. She is not herself and is confused and sounds like a mentally ill person who is out of their mind. Can anyone give me anything to look at online or give me some answers?