The Other Man...

I have been with my boyfriend for almost three years, somewhere along the way we fell apart and broke up. I ended up really falling for someone else, it actually felt like falling, we got along so well, the whole nine, but we cannot be together. Eventually my boyfriend and I are back together but when I tell you I found my soul mate in the other person...it hurts bad to admit but it’s true. So now all I think about is him...and my boyfriend is kind of just there....I’ve tried breaking up with him but we just keep coming back to each other and I know it’s because he’s convinced he won’t be able to do better but he definitely can...I’m hurt and confused and I can’t help but think I’m hurting and confusing him...

Thoughts? Opinions?