Moms with 2 that had a hard time with 1, how do you do it?

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I’ve always envisioned myself having many kids, but I have a 4 month old and I have a hard time just taking care of her while keeping up the house. Some days I want to lay in bed all day with her because I’m so exhausted while others I’m able to get a lot done and feel like super mom.
If you had a hard time with 1 child, how did you manage more?

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It gets easier once you get into a routine and baby gets older and more independent. Being a first time mom is hard because no matter how prepared you are its still a big adjustment.

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First of all 4 months is so young. You haven't even gotten into a routine yet. You still have a baby that needs you constantly. 
I've always said I had my second to entertain my first. My oldest was 2 1/2 when my second was born. It was a tough first few months getting the hang of it but once my second was old enough to play her and her sister played all day. I had time to clean house, I started cooking dinner again, I read while they played in the nursery. It was wonderful. There are times when 2 is easier than 1.

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You are learning a lot with your first.  When you have your second, experience makes you better at the juggling game.  You are more relaxed about knowing you might not be able to make a dent in household chores for a day or two, but that is usually followed by a day or two of super human productivity.  You know that planning looks different - it isn’t necessarily I will get this done today, but you might be able to be where you want to be by the end of the week.

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I'm wondering the same. I have a 2 year old and she's so much work, the clock is ticking as i don't want a big age gap...so I'm extremely nervous, worried about jealousy too and hurting my daughter's feelings as she's extremely attached to me.

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My 14 month old is so full on and I'm 24 weeks pregnant. I have no effing idea how the hell I'm going manage 😂

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I think you just have to put enough space between them. Four months is really really young

Moms with 2 that had a hard time with 1, how do you do it?

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