Anyone else like this? Can I consider myself in the community or no? Just want to know where I should stand. I’m still confused

I haven’t considered myself a part of the LGBT 🏳️‍🌈 community because I’ve been in the Bi closet. And when I did get a gf everyone was saying I was just experimenting and I’d grow out of it. Now I’m married to a man. I’m still Bi tho