So little back story..I have 3 kids and met this amazing guy while I was pregnant with my last one and he’s been nothing but amazing to me the whole time we were dating and even helped me with the kids and everything! We waited to have sex for 6 months in the beginning of our relationship. We’ve been together for awhile and he’s been saying he’s known I was the one for awhile now.

So when he popped the question one day with a wedding ring I said yes because I loved the idea of being his wife and us raising my three little ones and being the perfect family! Please don’t judge that we’ve only been together for 11 months and are engaged..

My three kiddos are not his and he has no kids so he’s been having major issues ever since he popped the question with the kids and his temper. Like he can’t stand when the baby cries and he’s only 5 months old. Also my 1 year old gets on his nerves and he can’t stand when she whines or cries or tries to lay on me. Every time she tries climbing on me he grabs her and places her back on the ground. Also he and my 6 year old were great in the beginning but somehow now that we are engaged he can’t seem to stand her either and doesn’t like her behavior or really anything about her anymore. Like she rolls her eyes and is a typical 6 year old but he doesn’t understand that sometimes kids can be aholes...I’m really struggling trying to get him to understand because he’s super strict and wants things to happen with respect and my kiddos have never had to deal with that. Neither have I.

Also a new issue is the kids fathers. My 6 year old has a separate dad than my 2 youngest...and my youngest kids dad he can’t stand and doesn’t want me to converse with him at all even if it’s for the kids and to have him and I schedule days for him to see his kids.

I don’t know what to do or if I should even still marry him with the issues.. any advice is welcome?!

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