I really need some hope- please share your experience!

I had my miscarriage in December of 2018 after getting pregnant on our first month of trying— I was 9 weeks pregnant. It seems in almost every thread I read that most people get pregnant quicker after their miscarriage and for me it’s now been five cycles and nothing yet. I know that’s not a long time still but it’s five times longer than it took me the first time, so of course I’m starting to think there is something wrong. Did anyone else have an experience like this? When did you finally get pregnant again after your miscarriage? Could it just be my body is still getting back to normal?