Gel???😬🤔🤔Opinions???

So I have frizzy wavy loose curl hair and I am white and I have a rough time trying to get my hair to not look like I am really frizzy I was wondering if it would offend anyone if I did my edges so I could put my hair up because some people don’t think that white girls should be able to do edges hairspray doesn’t work so gel it kinda the only thing I would do my hair like this ⬇️