BDSM???

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Is it normal for me to be more into rough play with my S/O rather than gentle? I enjoy being submissive and he's getting into being dominant. But I also feel like there's a lack of intimacy when it comes to romantics between us... Halp.

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i can totally relate to this!! ive never met anyone who liked bdsm as much as me til the man im dating. we have been together for almost 3 yrs and sex is better n better n better. i love being his submissive. its so fucking hot. luckily though hes still very romantic but i do like it roughh. Sometimes i get shy because i feel like if i ever told anyone some of the things we do they might think were sick in the head hahaha😂😂

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BDSM ruined normal sex for me. but I ain't mad. I can't "make love" I just feel like I'm waiting to he choked the whole time and when it doesn't happen, I get anxious.

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Same!
The last time my husband tried to make love to me it was super awkward 🙊

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It's completely normal, just some ppl will openly admit it while others are too shy. We practice bdsm in our home. We enjoy it very much and even take turns switching dom/sub roles. Just always remember safe, sane, & consentual

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From a psychology standpoint, it'd be considered abnormal. But as long as it's mutual and now one is getting hurt, your sex life is personal so it's okay

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I normally don’t post this stuff online but I’d always wanted to try it . Never did till I got with my so but I love rough more then anything it turns me on a lot quicker. I love it when he’s rough and takes control. Biting, spanking, sometimes I let him choke me( I’ve been through some bad things and said I’d never allow that but he knows how far he can take it) .   Hmm my list could go on but it’s definitely so much more fun for me I think I enjoy it 100x more so then just normal sex. I haven’t even admitted this to him. Lol but yeah there’s quit a bit more I’d love to try and get him into but maybe one day I’ll get the guts to tell him so we can try it. He definitely loves being in charge but he’s let me be once or twice and said it really turned him on too.

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