Weight

Help!!! I need some advice, recipes, guidance on loosing some weight. I have gained a significant amount of weight over the past 6-8 months 50 ish lbs....I was on a bachelorette trip with some friends this weekend and they were videoing karaoke and etc.... then I watched the videos and realized I have hit bottom and wowza I need to shed some lbs. any advice, tips, tricks would be greatly appreciated. Please no rude comments as I am already pretty down and out about

My self😳