Help! (I’m 16)

Okay so... my boyfriend and I are both virgins, but we do a little bit of oral sex... well, I do it on him. I’m a female, and both of us were planning to possibly have sex, when it gets into that moment. We’re both aware of our actions, and we’re both are going to have safe, protective sex. But... I’m insecure of my body. I don’t want him to see my vagina, and think it’s gross because I have ingrown hairs and blackheads on it, but I was just born that way... I was born a very hairy child. I’m African American, so there’s a bit of hyperpigmentation. :/ I just feel so insecure...