She so over protective I feel trapped

My mom is so protective of me I hate it.

I just got a car, but I can’t go anywhere with out planning with her first.

I have a tracker on my phone, everyone in the family has one.

If I wanna go out with friends I need permission weeks in advance.

And no, it’s not because we “might have plans”

I’m not even allowed to drive in heavy traffic to work Friday because she thinks it’s “unsafe”

She just wants me with her all the time and I just can’t take it, and if I try to confront her she gets made and says “it’s that phone” or “this is why we should’ve made you take online classes.”

I’m 20 and in college. I have a boyfriend she doesn’t know about and I can’t even see him because she wants to know what I’m doing 24/7

Mom put trackers on our phones last summer when we went to Virginia and when I bring up taking them off, as I feel suffocated, she asks if I have stuff to hide.

Well no but when I’m working late in class and I get texts and phone calls asking why I’m in a building at 9 at night it gets invasive.