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Is it a bad thing to try to get over my ex by pretending he doesn’t exist? We have been friends for 2 years after our breakup and I’m still not over it. We basically stopped acting like a couple a yearish ago but have been broken up for 2 and we were still doing stuff before the then.
In fact the problem is, is that I still feel like I have hope that one day we will get back together Bc he was my first love. But basically I feel like to actually get over him maybe I have to cut him off for good and pretend as if he doesn’t exist? 
Do most people completely cut off their ex’s? Is that an okay way to do it? like I want to pretend we never even had any memories. Maybe until I feel like I’m fully over him forever. 
We both graduated college and aren’t really seeking much of each other anymore so idk if I need to but I’m wondering. Sorry he was my first break up so I’m not sure what to do.

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Cut him off. You need space to move on, no need to pretend he doesn’t exist lol just delete him from everywhere and jist explain to him that you need to move on so he isn’t clueless of what’s up

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Cut him off and move on!

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Yeah me and my ex stayed friends and did other stuff but for me that always kept the feelings going I would say cut them off completely you'll still have the memories with them that's kind of hard to get rid of but keeping in contact with them makes it harder to move on. Took me about a year and a half and that's because we were still talking

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If you're having a tough time, counseling could help you work through your concerns and feelings. I choose to not have any contact with my ex's, but some people do stay in touch. It's all very personal.

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You just need to cut him off. If he asks why I would just be honest with him.

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It's not bad at all. Needing space and focusing on yourself directly after is pretty normal. The people I know who were able to be friends after still didn't talk to them in the very beginning.

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I wouldn't say completely cut him off cause that's not healing thats just ignoring the pain. But girl do whatever you have to do to feel right again. You are entitled to do whatever you think you need to, inorder to move on, so if that means completely cutting him off go for it.

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That's not bad at all. I was in the exact same situation. Cutting him off completely let me heal on my own terms.

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