So my husband and I have been together for three years and married for 9 months. Everything moved quickly from the start and I was the happiest I’ve ever been up until about 3 months ago when little things he did, things he’s always done that before I found cute and endearing now I find irritating and hella annoying. I still look and him everyday and think ‘god I love this big idiot’ but also find myself wanting to literally choke him out sometimes 😂 I wouldn’t do it either btw not promoting spousal abuse here or trying to justify it. I know people say the first year of marriage is hard and we are kinda struggling financially to add insult to injury but we both hauling ass in work tryna get that coin so we can have some babies 😍 so I’m hoping it’s just a rough patch! But if anyone could share some advice if you’ve ever felt this way around the first year after marriage? Or even at all?