Do you think it’s possible to move on and rebuild after cheating?

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I know some people have the mindset of once and cheat always a cheat and others believe in second chances
I’ve read so many story’s on here about how their spouse had cheated but their relationship is stronger than ever now, do you guys believe this is possible? 
My friend is currently going through heartbreak and looking to me for advice but I have never been cheated on so I wouldn’t know what I would do in that situation as I’ve never actually loved someone before (family ofc)
What was your guy’s experiences?

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For me, once you lose my trust, it’s gone for good. So I know that for me rebuilding would be impossible. I don’t think it’s impossible for others, but I do believe it is VERY rare.

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Maybe, but I sure as hell wouldn’t. Cheating is a conscious choice which I will not stand by. Anything could be worked through but cheating and abuse.

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Id be done, I don’t deserve to be disrespected in such a way and the trust i had would be gone, id be extremely paranoid that he would cheat again. 
Thats no way to live. Its stresses both of you out causing arguments and constant check ups ect...

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It is possible after a very long time of rebuilding trust and couples therapy. But it all depends on the people involved.

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I said depends, because it depends on the couple. Personally no, I know I could not move past it and I would resent my husband if he cheated on me. I could eventually forgive him over time, but I would never be able to trust him again.

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Yea my boyfriend cheated on me and were fine now. I have a very different mindset when it comes to many things. It hurt like hell when I found out and I cried pretty much for a few days straight. That was pretty much it though we addressed the problem and moved on. No years of rebuilding trust or threapy for me. I think each situation and relationship can be different though. Like I said I tend to think about things differently so it won't work for everyone.

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I guesss it depends on your morals and values. You should write down both the pro's and con's of staying and leaving thrn weigh them out and go from there. Some people can change id they want too.

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Trying that now with zero luck. He clearly sees I’m still hurt by it but he doesn’t seem to care he just tells me that’s my fault for staying with him. 🤷🏻‍♀️ yeah it honestly is my fault for staying with someone so self centered. He doesn’t even care that he hurt me he just tells me if I can’t get over it then to move on and it’s my fault I feel like this cause I stayed, doesn’t sound like he’s sorry to me. And that’s why me and him aren’t even on good terms ever and we barley speak anymore and we don’t even touch eachother or say I love you ever. Shitty relationship if you ask me and I’m still here because I’m not working while I’m pregnant so I can’t really leave but if I could I think I would’ve left a LONG time ago.

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I haven’t read any stronger than ever stories on here.
If it’s going to work, and it was a one time occurrence not a full blown affair, maybe with therapy and working on communication it maybe can work out. 
In real life, I only know of one couple, my friends parents, who moved past it but I wouldn’t say it’s a healthy relationship (gambling and $ problems for years).

Do you think it’s possible to move on and rebuild after cheating?

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