Issues, please comment with your thoughts

I'm in the process of breaking up with a man who wanted me to only wear skirts, talked bad about family and closest friends, demeaned my childhood and current location, and doubts when I tell him I'm loyal, he contradicts me and curses like a sailor while talking with me, he doesn't like me going to church, either. Hes controlling, demeaning, and hardly ever says anything nice about me.

Four nights ago he wooed me and told me I was beautiful called me honey and sweetie (he knows that I like this but never does this) and that we'd marry because he wants my brother for a brother-in-law. And then that I needed to work on a lot of things before we got married, including among other things, my weight, and ladies, I am pretty petite. Oh and this same man, came to my house to meet me for the first time and took me to bed 10 min. after arriving and everytime we've seen each other since. So he almost impregnated me. I'm beginning to hate men. Please help, any thoughtful comments would be nice, I don't want to hate them but at the same time I feel like every man has disrespected me, so far.

So he wants to get married but hasn't proposed, he has these traits which, ehhh. Everybody has flaws though. Do you think that this is a legitimate reason to dump or no?

Side note: he's also 500 miles away from me visiting his parents.