Advice please..

Okay so me and my boyfriend (first sexual partner) have recently been doing more things in the bedroom, and whenever we are doing like fourplay and hes touching me etc i kind of get wet quite easy and fast so by the time we actually get to having sex im basically already 'soaking' and its a little bit embarrassing..can anyone else relate? Or have any tips etc on how to prevent this happening so quick.

Also im technically a virgin still, we have attempted sex before but im so tight and cant really fit his penis in...we get like half way in and when he moves up and down i feel a sharp pain inside my vagina and it uncomfortable so we stop. He has tried fingering me etc every time but i just cant seem to loosen up, anyone know tips on how to do so?

Im quite new to all this so a bit of advice would be very much appreciated:)) x