I miss sex

My husband and I have had sex 4 times since our baby was born. He is 4 months old now. The last time we had sex was 7 weeks ago. My husband is having pain down there and he doesn’t remember doing anything to injure his penis. The pain started before our son was even a month old so we know it’s not sex related. He went to the doctor and they told him to wait another month to have sex and if it doesn’t get better to come back. We have no idea what’s going on. He says the base is tender to the touch and his whole penis only hurts when he has an erection.

This has really affected our marriage. I was excited to be able to have him again after having the baby but he didn’t seem interested. I didn’t know about the injury at the time so I thought he was just being distant. I’m dealing with PP depression so it’s making me more clingy and want sex more. But it’s also making me push him away when I get upset about not being able to have sex. I don’t know how long this issue is going to last but it’s driving me crazy. I’ve tried to cope but it’s really difficult. And I know it’s even harder on him because it’s his body that is having the issue and he can’t do anything about it. And he knows how much I want him. He wants me too.