so my boyfriend and i have gotten into a routine when it comes to sex. we both work a lot and i completely understand not wanting to do things when you're exhausted, but i would think every once in a while spicing it up would be nice. i asked him recently why he stopped going down on me(he doesn't go down frequently, but it was enough to where i felt the need to ask why) and he said i had to catch him when he's coming out of the shower, and that he doesn't like going down. on the other hand though, i personally love receiving oral(duh) and going down on my boyfriend, why? because it makes him feel good. so now i stopped going down on him too and we've been in this boring ass routine of sex that doesn't last that long at all and takes me forever to get wet, now my question is this: even though we kind of already talked about it, how do i tell him that our sex routine is boring and ask for more oral, without him getting butt hurt?