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Ugh. I'm stuck. I love my boyfriend. We've been together for over a year and a half, know each other for like 5 years, and we have a beautiful ten month old together. He's the primary bread winner, I wrk part time, and care for the baby, and keep up with the house. We've always bickered about him not helping around the house enough, or with the baby, and I swear it has only gotten worse. I can hardly get him to do anything. And when I say something, he just stays quiet. And I've already had people tell me to just stop cooking and cleaning, but that doesn't help. He just lets it pile up. Opinions?