My husband now complains about everything I do!

All he does is to complain. If I talk calmly, he complains that I am talking rudely, if I keep quiet to avoid being told that I am talking rudely, he complains about that too. I am just tired and I don’t know what else to do to please that man. 3 years of marriage and all his complaining just started this past weeks. I just don’t understand what’s going on