Am I acting too much like his mother?

This is the text I just sent my husband. Just for clarity, I said I would clean the bedroom today and put the laundry away and I didn’t. He didn’t ask me to do it, it’s just something I needed to do. He would never be mad that I didn’t get it done, I just personally feel inadequate like I’m a bad wife.

“Hi sweets. I know the laundry and bedroom is not done but I’m working on it. The comforter is in the dryer, you will probably need to flip it around and put it back in for a bit. Bella’s bed is in the washer, just take it out and put it in the dryer when the comforter is done. I will go grocery shopping tomorrow. I pulled out a black shirt, boxers, and pants for you so you don’t have to go digging through the clean clothes, and they’re on the kitchen counter. I love you so much”