Attracted Pt. 3

Alright y'all!!

So it's been maybe a week now since I've created a post asking about this tall dark and handsome man that works in my building. I wrote down my name and number with a nice note and left it in his desk. I only know where he sits because MY MANAGER saw him and told me.

Well. Pt 3. I work from home on Wednesdays and I put my # on his desk on Tuesday. As I wrote before, After putting my # on his desk, he stopped walking by my desk and would put his head down when he saw me. Almost like he was avoiding me all day. I didn't take it personally and left it alone. Now back to Wednesday. Apparently he had been walking up and down my aisle while I was away "looking" for me. The few people who have noticed this guy walking my aisle rushed and told me today after returning to the office. I left for a dental appointment and apparently while I was away he did the same thing. My problem is, he didn't call or text me so would he be looking for me? Anyway, When I made it back after my appointment. I saw him and again we locked eyes and he smirked at me. Whatever tf smirking means. My colleague decided to go to his desk and see if she could find a name for him because as of right now we are all calling him Mystery Man. She found my sticky note was still there and taped it to his screen per her words "in case he didn't see it because he had a lot of other sticky notes on his desk"... After work, I worked up the courage to approach him to introduce myself and he was in a freaking meeting. He let me know he got my note but couldn't talk at the moment. I was respectful, quickly apologized for interrupting and walked away. He said thank you. Very nice!! I was quite happy to also see that he did not have a ring on. However, he still hasn't used the #. I told everyone who knows (3people) not to do anything else or even talk to him on my behalf (as my female colleague was going to do..But per her words she wasn't going to mention my name but ask him questions. I told her go right ahead because she's obviously now interested and I refuse to complete with any bitch behind a man that isn't mine. If you want him too then let me back up because it's not that serious)...

So. I've decided not to put anymore energy into it however if I happen to see him walk down my aisle again, I will make it a point for him to know my name and apologize again for approaching his desk. Which was unprofessional of me. Luckily, he wasn't speaking in the meeting but listening. I just hope he didn't miss valuable information from my maybe 30 seconds of very short conversation.

Did I do too much going to him to talk? I went based off of everyone else and what they said. One being an older gentleman who pulled me to the side afyer giving Mystery Man my # and told me to properly introduce myself to him and said that he had a conversation with him as well and said he seemed like a well rounded guy.

I don't want to seem needy and if he doesn't call, he doesn't call. I won't be bothered by it. I just wanted to show my interest.

Now, do I just keep with this waiting game or forget about it and him completely now?

**Thank you @🥰 my thoughts EXACTLY. That is the exact reason why I told everyone who knows to LEAVE IT ALONE!! I don't want to get in trouble because they've gotten too involved in my love life**

**PurplePanda...I feel the same way. I threw some major hints. I'm beginning to think he's not interested and if not that is fine. I've never done this before so I'm nervous and scared. I haven't ever dated in the work place so I figured wth! Let's give this a go. I'm tactful enough to keep all things professional. I've had friendships go bad in a work place and no one knew so I can handle rejection. I will definitely keep updating**

**Tanae... Why would I confront him? He has to walk out of his way to walk past my desk to see if I'm here. He has other avenues around me to take. So I doubt it's because he thinks I would confront him, I'm not that type of person plus it's where I make my money. Not gona mess that up. Also, if that was the case he kept walking by yesterday as well even while I was here. I've let it all go now so it doesn't matter to me. I think I let everyone get into my head about it because they've seen him looking too and they figured "he must be really interested".... I tried but it ends here**