I’ve seen my whole family crumble due to the fact they have issues amongst themselves that they cannot and will never resolve. I had a huge family filled with cousins and aunts and more to hangout with. Since they won’t deal with their issues I have no one but my immediate family to rely on. And even my immediate family are toxic.

Is it wrong of me to not want to deal with my family? Is it wrong on me to go through life with the goal of getting on my feet then stop talking/associating with them? Don’t get me wrong I don’t hate them. Yet I definitely prefer to only contact them during holidays...... my immediate family have abused me physically, mentally and emotionally. Not to mention drained me financial and I’m only at the age of 23. Some days I feel guilty for thinking this way but when they do something to me yet again.....I could care less.