We finally talked like adults for the sake of our unborn baby!

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THIS IS FINNA BE A LONG STORY DO PLEASE BARE WITH ME AND PLEASE READ AND COMMENT , So me and my baby father was just screwing around he just recently got outta prison for something I thought he didn’t do but turned out he did do it cause it happened to me. But we was just talking he wanted a relationship but I wanted to take things slow and at first I thought he had gotten what I was saying to him but some how it didn’t get through his head everything was smooth sailing like we was having fun and he stared to show me signs of domestic violence what he was convicted of and aggression but i didn’t really pay no mind to it . When I found out i was pregnant and told him everything turned upside down that happiness was gone it tuned out he wasn’t the person he was showing me before, so I stopped talking to him and then he started to mkeup lies about what we had going on tryna come back tryna tell me what he said she said stuff waiting outside my house for me coming through my window pushing my stomach knowing I was pregnant with his child, trying to choke me ,standing in front of the cars I was in, saying when he see me he was going to beat my ass just putting unnecessary stress on me and my child so I blocked him from everything to all my social media accounts. Since he couldn’t get to me he went all my friends and family members telling me he miss me he’s gonna get me pregnant again all this bullshit I really didn’t pay no mind to it at that point I haves moved on with my life and one day i was in the car with my mother and he was passing by on a bike and stopped by my mother window but he didn’t know I was In the back seat but I just kept quiet and he looked down and was surprised i was back there no saying anything so he continued to say “hey Angel” I didn’tsay anything cause all that shit he did to me an he said It again “hey angel” I finally said hi and he said can we talk and I said yeah because I’ve been wanted to talk to him and lay everything down what I wanted to say so he met me at my mother house and we finally talked like adults but it was a little awkward because we haven’t seen each other in months but he was happy and excited to see me because he said she’s just happy to be in my presence but we are trying to build Communication skills for the sake of our child but as of our relationship that’s out of the question so the first thing he said was do I want to put him on child support and I said do you want a DNA test because that’s what he been saying to everybody he wants a DNA test because he’s not sure if it’s his because I stop talking to him but when I was with him I got pregnant so that part I don’t get but he says it’s not for him it’s for his mother and his aunt so he can shut them up, but like I told him he don’t have to prove anything to anyone as long as he knows the baby his that’s all it matters but I know it’s not for his mother or aunt is for him because every time we had got an argument he always brought up my ex and telling me oh you fucking him and all this, but that relationship with my ex was been dead when he say he wanted a DNA test it really hurt me because it brought me back to my pass when my father asked my mother for a DNA test with me because I wasn’t his skin complexion I was my mother skin complexion but he say he wanna be there if the baby his or not and that’s what made me furious because thats letting me know he don’t know if it’s really his so I don’t know if I really want him around with my child is born is that wrong!

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