Recording

i’m with this guy and we’ve tried recording ourselves having sex. when we tried tho he struggled to get hard and i tried telling him it was okay but we got into an argument about it bc he was annoyed at himself so we stopped. we love each other so i know it’s not me but probs pressure bc we stopped recording and carried on fine. anyway, i want to record us bc he says he really wants to and he’s given me consent but i don’t think it’ll work if he knows it’s recording. i want to know if it’s okay to record us while he doesn’t know then show him after?? i’m pretty sure he’d be cool with it and i’d say we can delete it straightaway and all that if he doesn’t like it but i want to know if morally that’s okay to do?? i’m all about consent so i feel terrible even considering knowing i don’t technically have his consent beforehand, but we leave each other for two weeks at a time and we want videos for that i just don’t know how to do it. please no hate thank u!! 💖