Is it just me? *RANT*

Question

Anytime my BF tells me to do something (he’s trying to help) he comes off really naggy and like he’s lecturing me and I HATE IT. It aggravates me and I really try to hold it in. Like I get it, I’m lazy and forget to pick things up from time to time but I’m not super messy. He makes me feel like I am if I leave 1 PAIR OF PANTS ON THE FLOOR. Or if I leave my shoes on the side of the bed. 
Like I said it’s never anything extreme that I do but he makes me feel that way. Is it just my anxiety? Or does he need to tone it down and stop lecturing me like a child.

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I'm a very clean person especially now that we have a house and no pets, my bf is the same way but now that im home because im due in a few weeks, he leaves shit out so i know how he feels. You just need to communicate together. Can't fix an issue if you don't talk about it.

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Communicate with him, tell him how you feel.
You also listen to how he feels.
It may just be a pair of pants to you, but to him it's obviously a bigger issue.
Of course, everyone should pick their battles. I'm not going to nag my husband for not putting his dirty clothes in the laundry basket *right next to him* because I can easily grab it and toss it in as I walk by. Am I going to get on him to drink more water? Every time. I don't care if I'm irritating.
He's the same way, I'm sure there are a hundred things I do that bug him but I don't hear about every single one of them.

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Thanks guys, I know it’s harmless nagging and he is a bit obsessive with organization and cleaning. I know he’s trying to teach me better habits I just feel he can go about it differently. When I explain this to him he gets down on himself because he doesn’t want me to feel like I’m incompetent. I guess he just comes across very dad-like. 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Just tell him how you feel! It’s never good to hold in your feelings. It will build up overtime and make you feel worse! X

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I feel like that's just really annoying. Especially given you are pretty clean.
Sometimes i have off days where I am disorganized. I expect my partner to be calm and LET ME BE MYSELF. Just like I would do for them. I've never nagged someone about a pair of fucking pants.😐 
One of my ex's was a big nagger, always putting me down for practical stuff I hadn't done yet, regardless of my reason, I found it really annoying, and a great perk when I no longer had to hear it when we broke up. Lol And our room was very disorganized, because of him, I always put things away for us- never once put him down for any of his habits- despite how I thought he wasted too much plastic and spent too much on eating out.
My other ex only asked me to do a chore once, we both were disorganized sometimes, but we both liked it clean. We didn't nag each other, but I did most of the cleaning. It was really nice when he'd clean up. We could be clean or messy, nobody ever had a problem ^.^

Is it just me? RANT

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