Does your spouse have to disclose people he/have met, dated, talked to, etc. in real life, if they're Facebook friends?

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Please settle this argument.  I think if you have someone on your Facebook that you've met or dated in real life, you should disclose that to your current spouse. Spouse says, they're in the past, it's not important. This includes, friends of the opposite sex, dates, etc....

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I'm not really sure what you mean, like go through every single of my 500+ friends and say whether or not I know them in person or I've fucked them?
Uh no. We are both adults. Idgaf if he has exes on his fb or whatever. He's not a child, I'm not going to treat him like one.

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Nah. I ain't that insecure or controlling.
My god. I only have people on my fb I've met in real life. And what difference would it make anyway?

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Absolutely not...we both have some people that we’ve dated/slept with on Facebook, neither of us could give a flying f*ck tho. It’s called trust. You’d have to be very insecure in your relationship to care about something so small...and THAT is the problem, not your friends list..

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Exes and past people they’ve hooked up with is none of your business and you shouldn’t be concerned unless it’s causing you a problem in the relationship just leave the past alone. He doesn’t care about your past why do you care about who he is friends with on fb

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Agree with the micromanaging comment. My husband is a grown ass man. He doesn’t need to disclose every person he’s ever dated on his friends list. You don’t sound secure in your marriage.

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Why in the hell would you be with someone when you have to micromanage everything? There’s no reason to know all of this

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Yea I don't feel the need to micromanage my husband. He can be friends with whoever, as long as he isn't harming our relationship to do so. He respects me and our marriage and life together, and I do the same. Beyond that, hes allowed to be friends, especially just Facebook friends, with whoever he pleases and vice versa

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Well, OP. Hope this settles it for you..🤷🏽‍♀️

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I'd rather not know about my SO past. I already know way too much and honestly wish I didn't. The past IS the past and that's where it should stay. You shouldn't be worried about Facebook and who's on his friends list girly. Who gives a damn. He's with you and obviously wants YOU.

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No. I'm not his warden.

Does your spouse have to disclose people he/have met, dated, talked to, etc. in real life, if they're Facebook friends?

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