Y’all... I cannot deal right now. So my fiancé and I are expecting in September. He’s the baby out of 6 kids. His oldest brother is ALWAYS asking for money. I cannot exaggerate this. I’ve seen the messages, he’s showed me and told me. So it’s him (my fiancé) his begging ass brother, his other brother & their sister in a group chat. (they also have the two older sisters, they don’t speak to them often- so that’s where they’re left out in this group chat) ANYWAYS since I’ve met my fiancé he’s always told me about his brother and I never really said much. The brother is always asking their mom for money, he didn’t even call her for her birthday, but remembers her when he needs money? He’ll also use his daughter as a guilt trip for my soon to be mil- and she ends up giving in, I feel so bad! She’s so sweet. So in the group chat, my fiancé shows me, his brother lost the car and is asking them for money to help him get a bike- well the one sister in the group chat gets annoyed and blows up on him, the other brother says no, and he’s like okay. He then asked my fiancé because that’s his last hope, and my fiancé said no as well. (I’m so happy they’re finally not letting him walk all over them). Did I mention that he always says he’ll pay them back and literally never does 🙄What made me very angry was today though, when I saw the message he sent my fiancé privately. He then asked him “hey man, can you please help me with this bike I need a bike for work man.” My fiancé says,”No, I’m sorry. I have bills and responsibilities to take care of, and you never pay me back, I’ve also offered you jobs to come work out here (Atlanta, Georgia) with me. I’m about to be married soon, and have a child- I’m about to have a family of my own and I cannot keep just giving you money that you won’t pay back.” Then the brother goes,”Well f*ck you too! You don’t help me anyways I gotta struggle out here (Los Angels, California) by myself. You can’t help your brother with $5, but can take that girl out?” My fiancé goes,”That girl? That “girl” is my fiancée and the mother of my child whom I love, and yes I can take her out because she’s my family and she’s pregnant. Also dummy I took her out because her birthday is coming up and this was paid in advance.” Then he just says “f*ck you” to my fiancé.” I really want to say something to him, but it’s not my place to. It just makes me mad- like my fiancé is an awesome man, he takes such good care of me, and he gets me whatever I need/ want (spoiled lol) & I do the same with him, our relationship is 50/50 when it comes to things like that. He works so hard, he’ll put in overtime at his job, like last week he put in 57 hours & makes $19/hr. It just makes me mad that his brother totally disregards that his little brother BUSTS his ass at work- while he can’t keep a stable job, or a car- and he owes his siblings and their mother over $5,000+ combined over how much he’s borrowed, and was supposed to pay back over the years. I’m not necessarily too bothered that he referred to me the way he did, I’m just bothered that he’s a bum, and literally disrespects my fiancé, and doesn’t see how hard working he is, always asking for money, and gets mad when he can’t help him anymore. I just needed to rant sorry.