Kinda a rant I guess: back story.

My best friend had offered to throw me a baby shower. Normally I plan everything I even planned my own wedding!!! So I agreed to take a backseat and trust her to throw it.

She said she had a room set up but then the place closed down. So I had been looking for places to throw it because it seemed like she wasn't even looking.

Well my worst fears were confirmed. She has been ghosting me since July 5th. I've called once and texted her every couple of days not even about the baby shower!!!! Just to say hi and check on her. She was supposed to come to my ultrasound that me and my husband paid 200$ for, she said she was coming and never even showed up...

Honestly I'm kinda hurt. My husband said to just quit bothering her... but she's supposed to be my best friend....

Any advice appreciated. Or if anyone has gone through something Similar....