TOO big...😰

Help!! I recently started seeing this guy, and he’s been incredible at all things sex... until we actually went all the way. He’s extremely well endowed, and while I can handle and appreciate a good 8 inches, anything more than that (ie: him) just hurts. I get very wet, and we used lube, but it still hurt. We still had a couple amazing rounds and I had some great orgasms, but it hurt a lot and I wound up with a bruised cervix. Anal with him also led to me hardly being able to walk for two days. My lower half has just recovered, and I can’t stop thinking about him and want to see him again... but I don’t want to damage my vagina anymore😂 Any tips for dealing with an enormous dick?? Is there any way to make it hurt less?