Not appreciated

I feel like nobody cares about me anymore, we moved all the way across the United States due to my husband being in the navy, so I left family, friends everything and turned into a stay at home wife. It was nice but now I’m so burned out all I want to due is cry. My friends,l and family just don’t get it and keep saying I understand or I don’t know what to tell you.

I cook, clean, take care of bills, work 25 hours from home, take care of the farm, take care of boys and anything else that pops up.

I keep asking my husband for a day off but His idea is just playing with the boys. There is no romance in our marriage and I’ve tried repeatedly to show him what I want but he keeps forgetting. He’s in the navy so I know their schedule is all kinds of crazy so all I ask for is a text to let me know if your working late or anything else., but he rarely does it keeps claiming he forgets.

Whenever I talk to my mom she comes off like I’m bothering her, and she doesn’t know what to tell me. When she sends boxes to the house she won’t even address them to me it’s to my oldest sons name, even though the stuff in the box is too me.

I use to ride my horse 7 days a week, barrel race, read and was super active but now I’m just feeling like a tool that nobody cares about. I’ve tried making friends but I keep getting ghosted. I just feel so lost