I Need Advice

Amanda

I'm 18, about to go off to college and yesterday I went on a bike ride with one of my closest friends. I didn't tell my boyfriend because he really hates this friend (that coincidentally is a guy that also happens to be my ex). This friend, I've known for years and when we had dated, we lasted a month because we realized we were much better off friends. I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months, and he still doesn't like my guy friend.

Back to the story, my bf found out about my bike ride and how I lied about it. But I lied because I didn't want him to get upset. I tracked my route with my fitness app and showed him. But he thinks I cheated on him with this guy, when there was literally no time and my location was on the streets.

He said I had to pick, between my bf and my friend who I love as a brother. I chose my bf, but I'm sincerely beginning to question my decision. This morning he asked me to block my friend and send him pictures, so I did. That was hard.

I need some opinions on this situation. I know I fucked up by lying, but... Do you guys think I picked the right person? I hated having to choose, and I don't know what to do right now. I'm going off to college in a couple weeks and my bf goes to another school so we won't see each other. We weren't planning on doing long distance because he has a severe jealousy problem and he'd be driven insane by the distance. So

I need to know if I picked right, regardless of the fact I shouldn't have picked. And any other opinions or comments would be helpful

Glow Resources

Let’s Glow

Glow is here for you on your path to pregnancy

Glow helps you navigate your fertility journey with smart tools, personalized insights, and guidance from medical experts who understand what matters most.

25+ million

Users

4.8 stars

200k+ app ratings

20+

Medical advisors