Anyone else completely unbothered by baby cries?

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Amanda

Don’t get me wrong I feel bad that she’s crying & I do my best to comfort her but it doesn’t annoy me at all. I’m just asking because I know it bothers my SO & definitely makes him anxious 😂

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So

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Nope. This is me as soon as my baby starts to cry:He HATES his car seat. The screaming while I’m driving makes me so anxious/upset that I stress sweat and almost cry. It’s never annoying or like “There he goes crying again🙄”. He just makes me feel so bad for my widdle sugar lump. I just want to love him and snuggle him and make him feel better as soon as possible.
Nope. This is me as soon as my baby starts to cry:He HATES his car seat. The screaming while I’m driving makes me so anxious/upset that I stress sweat and almost cry. It’s never annoying or like “There he goes crying again🙄”. He just makes me feel so bad for my widdle sugar lump.  I just want to love him and snuggle him and make him feel better as soon as possible.

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Stephanie • Jul 31, 2019
This is me! I like shudder with chills and get super uncomfortable/anxious. Worst is in the car when I can’t calm him and he won’t take a paci. Fml! He literally has to cry himself to sleep.

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So • Jul 30, 2019
I’m like that all the time. Any crying and I’m instantly running to him 🏃‍♀️. I’m just really sensitive to my babies’ cries. It really stresses me out to hear them cry. We tried CIO with our third, and I literally lasted 3 minutes before I broke down and swore never to try it again😂

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Amanda • Jul 30, 2019
I definitely feel this way when my baby is in her car seat & cries but that’s rare for her. I’m mostly talking about when i’m holding her & she’s crying

Ma

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I work in childcare and work with infants all day so I hear crying all day. Those cry's can definitely annoy me but when I come home to my LO and she starts to cry I don't get annoyed at all cause I can most time figure out what she needs quickly.

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Mallory • Jul 31, 2019
Yes!! We have at least 3 kids like that. They cry all day long and we can't do anything to help them unless we held them all day long witch we can't do

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Cheyenne • Jul 31, 2019
I worked in childcare too so I totally know what you're saying. I don't know if you've ever experienced it but we sometimes had kids come that were so not okay with being separated from their parents so they would just cry. all. day. And there was nothing we could do to calm them so we just had to get through it!

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Mallory • Jul 30, 2019
Oh and my husband is the same way

Ju

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It totally bothered me with my first baby. This is my 3rd and now I’m just used to constant crying. (4 year old with autism, 3 year old diva, and 2.5 month old). I do feel bad for them but my reaction is a lot calmer than it was two kids ago lol.

Ta

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With all the colic she’s had, and learning what her cries mean we’ve pretty much been the same.So thankful I can tell what she wants now (mostly😩) and not freak out because I don’t understand her. 😅

Fa

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FTM and it doesn’t bother me. Especially if I know why she’s crying. But if she randomly cries hard for no reason my heart just gets sad. Which is very rare thankfully. My husband hates it though even if she’s just making noises and grunting he takes it way to seriously and asks what’s wrong? Why is she crying?. He’s seriously obsessed with her and although it’s cute, when she cries he is near tears himself...

De

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I wish it didn’t bother me, but it does. And it bothers my boobs too because I start to leak as soon as he cries. If whoever has him isn’t fast enough to calm him, I take him away for the sake of not soaking my shirts lol

St

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My household is exactly the same ... with a 3 yr old and 3 month old there is always noise in my world... I don’t want my 3 yr old to notice I run the second the baby cries because he will def pick up on it , so I tell him sometimes baby has to wait and keep going on with my business ... my husband freaks out at these times and ends up yelling “how can you just keep functioning” LoL ... mommy life vs daddy life

Ra

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Doesn’t bother me lol bothers my husband he gets sad lol

Ch

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It doesn't necessarily bother me because I know she is totally safe. But I always respond to her immediately because I don't want her to think Mama's not there for her. However last night during her witching hour she just would not stop doing little on and off cries so I just sat her in her boppy next to me and let her sort it out, this was her face while I looked at my phone 😂"Why do you hate me!!!"

Ka

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I agree! It doesn’t annoy me or my husband at all! However my mother in law is currently living with us temporarily and it does annoy her ALOT, so I get anxious when she’s home and the baby screams