need some serious advice

so i’m really really dumb

i am 33 weeks & 5 days. at 33 weeks my baby was over 5 lbs and measuring 34 weeks & 2 days. very healthy even tho i was sent to the hospital just in case of preterm labor since i was dialating and having contractions. then two days after being discharged i went back bc i felt so much back pain again. obviously, both times they said no sex, no lifting, etc. then tonight i got really really horny and my hormones got the best of me and my husband said no, no, no but eventually gave in. i think everything is ok... still just having back pain, and it doesn’t really go away. hasn’t for the past couple weeks. pretty constant, just changes in level of intensity. but right now it’s hurting really bad and i’m pretty sure everything is fine. just want someone to scold me or someone to comfort me. whichever