I was out with friends last night and supposed to be going back to my boyfriends. At midnight he told me he was home from visiting his family up north and going to bed. Between 2am and 3am I sent him a few WhatsApp messages as I didn’t have a key to his so I headed back to my place on the night bus (through some pretty rough areas).

This morning when I checked my WhatsApp and he had been online at 4.30am and didn’t even open my messages even although he knew I was on my own on that bus. Thought it was just pretty weird.

Anyway. Turns out he was actually out drunk out his face with god knows who til god knows when (prob 4.30am lol).

He doesn’t think he’s done anything wrong?? He straight up lied to me about where he was and has clearly avoided my messages!! My own brother bumped into him in a club at round about midnight and he scurried off.

I’m so angry. He’s acting so so weird and suspicious. To lie about his whereabouts and avoid my messages is really making me feel like he’s hiding something. His (very few) replies to me also scream guilty.

We have been getting on really well recently and this has completely made me lose trust in him. I don’t understand why he lied - I don’t care if he goes out drinking! As long as he lets me know what he’s up to I couldn’t care less!

We were also supposed to have plans today hence why I was gonna stay at his last night and he is has just ignored be besides a few blunt and uncaring texts.

What do you think?