Anyone else hate their hubby ?

Question

He’s so annoying and doesn’t help w one single thing ....
I’m sahm but still a little help w something would be nice 
Anyone else ?

Answer

Wellllll I do feel like I resent him not necessarily hate him 😂 bc I’m the primary parent and only work two 10 hour days but on mommy duty 90% of the time when we are both home. 
He will say he’s going to go workout, go to Home Depot, go mow the lawn or run out to do an errand... ok 👋🏻 I’ll just stay here per usual! I feel more tethered to the house I guess. And I’m nursing so I get upset if we’re at a friends house and I have to excuse myself every 2 hours to go nurse him. 
If I mention that I’d love to get a workout out in he says to just do it but then I’m sweaty and will need a shower and there’s just no time lol

Answer

My husband and I use each other’s phones all the time like whoever’s is closest if we need to call or google something we just grab it. Well about two months ago I had googled “why do I hate my husband” 😂🤦🏼‍♀️ he never said anything and I actually learned some good ideas from what I found and I told him like a month ago I googled that and he goes “I know...” all sad !!! I felt terrible. But I explained myself and why I was feeling constantly annoyed. Most was me and how I was perceiving things. I think I was putting too much pressure on what I thought he should be or how I thought he should be helping in a certain way rather than realizing how much has changed for him. We focused on spending our evenings together, most days we wait to eat dinner after we put our baby to bed and then its just us for three hours. Also we try to communicate a lot more so we arent bottling up small annoyances. I can honestly say we haven’t had any issues or small fights since. It took a couple months but we adjusted to this new normal. But it definitely took work and a few fights to get there.

Answer

So i definitely don’t hate my husband... but I understand the feeling! I actually had to sit my husband down this past weekend and just lay it all out there for him. 
I told him I needed him to help more, to be more present and engaged with the baby, and to offer to do things instead of having to be asked. I did it in a way that didn’t make him feel attacked because it had been building up for a while now! We just sat down and talked it out. He understood where I was coming from and honestly the past 3 days he has been soooo amazing!! I am really hoping that it will stick! 
But if this is how you are feeling you should really try to talk to him about it. It’s important not only for the baby but for your sanity!! Hope it gets better for you!!

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