So I am currently 29 years old about to be 30 in September. A year ago I had the IUD Paragard put in. Well I was having problems with the guy I was talking to and made a horrible decision to hang out with someone else. Needless to say things happen. But a few days later the guy I was talking to apologize and well we made up. That’s until I found out I was pregnant. I had the courage to fess up to them. But they wanted me to get a abortion. I was fine with it at first. But as time went on I changed my mind and when I said that they lost it. They said Their reason for wanting me to get the abortion is they not ready and they can’t afford it. Then said I’m being selfish. Even though I said I don’t need them they’re making me out to be this horrible person. Am I being selfish? What are your thoughts?