Help - IB???

So I’m not really sure what is going on with my body this cycle (advice, help - anything is most welcome!!)

I’m currently 9dpo and my body feels like it’s all over the place. I’m not sure if my symptoms are positive ones or foreshadowing of AF. I started spotting yesterday with a mix of brown/pink tinged CM and then a few spots of red only when wiping. This morning nothing until after a BM (sorry TMI) when I had bit more of brown/pink CM. I don’t remember having IB with my first so I am not sure if that’s what this is. I’m bloated, super tired and having some mild cramps. AF isn’t due until next Wednesday...

Help!!!! 😊 thanks.