sexual desires

Okay. Well I’m new on here and I am a tad bit nervous lol but we’re all grown.

How do y’all go about telling your partner they don’t get you going anymore??? He nuts so fast now and more than half the time I don’t get mine anymore...I don’t want to leave him over this or make him feel insecure. Are there any tricks I could try to maybe make it last longer? He’s a little boring too...