Boyfriend doesn't want to see you?

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What should I think when my boyfriend randomly doesn't want to see me? Doesn't want to talk/text me? I haven't seen him in a week, now instead of spending the weekend with me, he's retreating back to his hometown, then the next weekend he'll have reserves, the next weekend I'll have a conference in Philly, the next he'll be off to Nascar. No us time for literally one month. He's completely fine with it and I'm struggling over here like trying to keep my cool. Is he cheating? Does he need his space? Does he just not want to be with me anymore? Am I overreacting? Like what am I supposed to think?!

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It kind of sounds like he's broken up with you but hasn't had the guts to come out and say it.

Do him a favor.  Rip off the bandaid and move forward.

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Move on.. He's definitely not man enough to confront u.. Ignoring is the most evil thing a person can do in a relationship

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I would say he's all ready broken up with you but can't man up and say it. It's just best to move on as hard as it maybe.

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If it isn't because of school or work I would say move on. Something isn't right...its ok to have some alone time, but not normal for no together time...

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I think it's what people do that have moved on or about to break up with you they just don't have the guts to do it. You should do it and then he will realize that he isn't the one letting you feel like shit he won't get to walk away and leave you beating yourself up side you will walk away being confident and independent in his eyes and he will see what he is loosing. Otherwise you will remain with nightmares and confusion until he does it

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I would say follow your gut. I have been through that situation. I was dating a guy for a year and a half and everything was all good then he moved back to his hometown and after that he completely ignored me no matter what I did. A year later of ignoring me he decides to text me saying he was sorry and everything and making excuses but I told him off :) don't regret it. In that year I met someone else and been with this man ever since.

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You deserve to be with someone who is dying to spend time with you, not someone who brushes you off.

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Please realize you deserve better. You deserve a full and complete man and relationship. Break off with him and date other people. Maybe he'll wake up and maybe not but you don't need to settle for being ignored.

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This sounds rough but follow whatever your gut instincts are telling you. You are the person in the relationship with him and if you feel like something is up, than more than likely it is. I would attempt one more reach out. If he continues to push you away I would break up with him. As painful as this sounds, at least you will be in control over what's going on. Waiting for him to come around and break up with you or whatever else we make you feel helpless and powerless. Listen to yourself you already know what to do. Sorry that you are even going through the that! 😕

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That's what my ex done to me last month, started dating a girl then we broke up 2-3 weeks later. Hope that's not the case for you.

Boyfriend doesn't want to see you?

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