My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years and I would say we have a good stable relationship. The only thing I can really complain about is our sex life. I told him that I like when he goes down on me and I like to go down on him. The first time he did it was horrible!!!!!! I kindly told him what I like and don’t like, because communication is important. After I told him I think I hurt his pride, now all he wants his blow jobs and I get nothing in return. What should I do? I feel like he is not meeting my sexual needs and he doesn’t listen.