Before you jump down my throat, my so hasn’t touched any type of drug since he was 18 and he’s going to be 26 in October. I wouldn’t be trying to make a child with someone who is actively using cocaine and I’m also not the type of person to hold someone’s past actions against them.

He is super down right now because he thinks he ruined his fertility in his drug experimenting days. He did coke for a few months off and on when he was 18.

I know it can directly affect sperm when a man is actively using.. but what about later on when he has not used? 9 years later to be exact? Does it permanently effect a mans fertility?

I think he is just blaming himself that I have not gotten pregnant and thinking of anything he could have done to ruin his fertility. It could also be me, or just the fact that we aren’t trying at the right times.