Fuming and feeling deceived

i dont know why but every time i talk about it, think about it and all the rest of it my sex life or shall I say lack of it gets me beyond fuming, my partner from the moment he met me knew i had a high sex drive an all the rest of it, things for the first 6 months was great but go 2 years down the line and I get nothing absolutely nothing for 4-8 weeks at a time, I almost see deceived and used getting trapped in with a man whos got a sex drive lower than a menopausal woman, weve had more talks and arguments over this bullcrap than I can count how many times weve even had sex, how did i get so unlucky