Holiday plans ?

So I’m sure this has been asked before but what are you mamas that are due close to Christmas planning as far as holidays and families and how did you inform them of said plans?

I’m due December 25th! ☃️🎅🏽 which means thanksgiving and Christmas are potentially just going to be hard holidays to make to see everyone. Thanksgiving is a month before and in my prior pregnancies a month before I was generally exhausted and didn’t want to do much of anything due to back pain. And Christmas well whether I deliver just before the day of or after I don’t see us making it to anyone’s house.

This is hard for me because I’m generally a very accommodating person especially during holidays- hoping to appease everyone I can but I’m not sure about this year lol