need advice

how do i get this guy i’m talking to tell me if he rlly has feelings for me ? we’ve been “talking” for ab 3 or 4 weeks now everything is good but we just don’t rlly talk ab our feelings to each other like that and i rlly want to but i don’t wanna seem like im tryna force him to talk ab stuff. he’s shy and i don’t know how to break him out of his shell. if that makes sense.